Well, if it couldn't get anymore infuriating, think again. As per usual, I started exploring alternatives to the overpriced englishman. Low and behold, America has a solution for next to nothing, and in US dollars. But then this dower Indian bloke from the same company as the pushy englishman calls. The stories of doom and gloom he wove. The dangers of internet quotes and people mis-understanding their clients needs. "No! stay with us" he was trying to say. Unfortunately, all I heard was him describing the incompetence of his own company.
Incompetence aside I went to work on the patenting and the trademark. For some reason the government, in all their wisdom, have made it a requirement that all transmissions regarding patents or trademarks must be posted or faxed. Gotta love efficiency at work. So now, while I wait for a public servant to scamper from his seat to the fax machine, a journey akin to Frodo and the one ring, the seven months of waiting have begun.
On the positive side, the website and online services systems seem to be making progress. The mongrel I am creating of parts from china, america, australia and new zealand, should work out quite well in the end. Besides I prefer the extra security of using multiple servers; if anybody gets an idea to hack me, they will have to hack the systems of not one but three major companies.
After a half a day of waiting for people to return enquiries on systems, best friend arrived for best friend day. He is learning to surf. Or had just spent half a day with professionals teaching him where I had failed. Still can't duck-dive though. I maintain it is because he is built like a rock. The professionals advised him just to hug the board and hold on for dear life. Not really a duck dive, more like an icebreaker but whatever works.
Within an hour of him arriving I had to leave for the Physio. Bloody spell check keeps changing that to physic. The dictionary tells me that physic (pronounced fizic) means healing in archaic english. But moving on, physio went well i am physicing well. Ultrasound even found well developed core muscles. I had to make them dance on the screen by hissing like a parclemouth from harry potter. Now I have exercises to develop them. And wouldn't you know it, everybody I was waiting for contacted me while I was glued to the bed with electric stickers attached to my spine.
Got home after the physio within 20 minutes this time. Finished off my work for the day and proceeded to tuesday-dinner-making with the best friend. Butterflied lamb roast and winter vegis. Was good, except I let the lamb overcook. I am not experienced enough with the webber yet. After dinner we planned to see Cars2, which ended up being quite gruesome for a disney picture. Can't say i was happy with it at all. The story was better than most james bonds that have come out recently, but overall not a kids movie.
As I was lying in bed, at my grandpa 8:30 bed time, the vivid thought of a first conversation intruded with such force. When I came out, everyone already knew. It was just the nicety of me giving the words my voice. My family were ecstatic I finally had taken the risk to confide in them. I remember the fear that they would reject me. But what I remember the most is, separately (because I told them all one to one) each of them had always been on the journey with me, so it came as no surprise. It wasn't like I just jumped up and said it one day out of the blue. I was lucky that they had been able to follow my whole story; from figuring it out and the fear, to boxing it all up for years, to one day meeting a man and falling in love. Things do work better when they come as a story. I think that is what humans are designed for. Sharing knowledge and experiences so that everyone else can know what their life has been like.